Soo, its been ages since ive posted in my blog... so a short summary of the events:
Weekend with Greg was WEEEEIRD! Went clubbing to retro, had to wait for 2.5 hours to get in, got in at 3, didnt score, due to a combination of my inefficiency, so to speak, and the lack of attractive girls. So yeah that mildly sucked :P next day his mom went on so many bitch rants that I left his house and went for a 2-3 hour long walk, up to the sea.
Arijana wanted to be friends with me. Greg asked me to come over to an empty classroom, and left me alone to talk with her. Tried to convince me tht we cud b friends. I vehemently disagreed, but yeah she is stubborn... So in the end she texted me, I was going to say no, but greg maintained that it would be much easier just to "keep up appearances" and say yes, then refuse. Which I did. after what like 1-2 weeks of superficial "philip sup" facebook/msn messages greg set up a poker game, where it was me, my bro, and she joined in. Seeing her with greg as usual started grinding my gears, in the end I decided to just go all in and leave before I said something extremely unpleasant. Hey, I thought it was a tactful way out. Apparently it didnt work, they came to my room and wouldnt leave. I tried to convince and coerce them over a large period of time, to no avail. In the end I threw my phone at the wall in an attempt to freak them out enough for them to leave. Arijana left, me and greg had a talk. He maintained that I should apologise. Which I did, albeit rather superficially. So yeah now Im in "ignore arijana" mode, which will most likely persist until the end of school. Hey, its not very nice, but I cant see an alternative.
Haha last bytur, I had 200kr for the trip, went a bit later then the others, walked to town alone, in the dark, bought a big bottle of bacardi and some cola zero. Mixed em up and drank most of it over 30 min while walking towards the club. Deposited the half full bottle behind a dumpster outside, and frequently took short trips outside for a sip. Danced quite a bit, ended up hooking up with a girl that used to go to herluf some years ago. Lol didnt realise the extent of her alcoholic embezzlement until she almost fell at one point. Things got quite interesting, but then Im afraid that we had to go out and in again into retro, this time requiring a 20 year old ID. Im 16, but had a 19 year old ID, the bitches didnt let me in. So nothing happened otherwise with the girl :/
Met these 2 russian guys at the entrance, explained them my dillema. They were semi drunk and very friendly, led me to another club, and payed for my entrance (LOL). Had some fun for abt 30 mins with them, smoked a ciggy (yes its a sin, and no it wasnt particularly nice, and no I wont be repeating anytime soon. Waterpipe ftw tho) . Anyways afterwards picked up a cab, got back to school on time.
Revision is going kinda shite, not doing nearly enough. Will be staying up to finish these two assignments I have overdue. Not in a very philosophical mood today, so sorry no deeply emotional introspection this time :P
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Thursday, February 26, 2009
lol
Feel like a lot of the thoughts I have been having have been stupidity. Guess thats a good thing. Im essentially not really thinking about her any more, I mean a bit of course, but not overly concerned. Mostly just depressed for no particular reason at this point, sort of guess that the whole fuck up put things into motion. Hoping to get over it this weekend with the whole clubbing thing, should be fun :)
haha greg is going to be my "wing man", whatever the fuck that means... Should be interesting to see how things fold out, whatever happens I intend to have some good drinking, and fun. Not particular ambitious due to my current emotional detachment, should be a good alternative to my usual drunken desperation. I mean it kinda worked last party, so guess that being casually interested but not really caring is the way to go ;)
havent clubbed for ages, tired of this stupid school ball bullshit.... should be nice to wear some decent clothes for once and be at a party with nice music. Ironically going to Retro again, like almost the only club I been to in DK (except for crazy daisy). Quite nice place so dont mind. lol good Im going with greg could use a wee bit of practical advice :P
been quite the asshole to him the last week or two, realised that today and apologised to him, hope he is not too pissed at me... guess it must be hard to be friends with me, probs even harder then it was for me to b friends with him. well whatever, we talked about issues related to the whole thing, and I didnt really care very much. I kind of understand what happened and why now, but would rather not talk about it in depth. Whatever happened, even if im more or less over it, I dont think I will ever talk to her again. not because she flippantly changed her mind; I understand that now, but because she never cared enough to apologise, explain, or do the dignity to say it to my face. whatever her motives, I find that unacceptable. but lol Ive said that in like every blog post this week so I guess the message comes across :P
watched this cool tv soap called "skins", suprisingly good actually, with a sub plot which resembles an insanely exaggerated version of wut I was going through. Made me feel relieved that I came out of it all relatively unscathed; could have been worse :P and hey you know I learned a bit from it, and experience is always good. Guess that maturity is at last catching up with me :P happy that that is happening now at least, better late than never... anyways gonna go pack up my "party" clothes atm, watch some movie, and go to bed sleep since imma have my last exams tomorrow, which is important.
haha greg is going to be my "wing man", whatever the fuck that means... Should be interesting to see how things fold out, whatever happens I intend to have some good drinking, and fun. Not particular ambitious due to my current emotional detachment, should be a good alternative to my usual drunken desperation. I mean it kinda worked last party, so guess that being casually interested but not really caring is the way to go ;)
havent clubbed for ages, tired of this stupid school ball bullshit.... should be nice to wear some decent clothes for once and be at a party with nice music. Ironically going to Retro again, like almost the only club I been to in DK (except for crazy daisy). Quite nice place so dont mind. lol good Im going with greg could use a wee bit of practical advice :P
been quite the asshole to him the last week or two, realised that today and apologised to him, hope he is not too pissed at me... guess it must be hard to be friends with me, probs even harder then it was for me to b friends with him. well whatever, we talked about issues related to the whole thing, and I didnt really care very much. I kind of understand what happened and why now, but would rather not talk about it in depth. Whatever happened, even if im more or less over it, I dont think I will ever talk to her again. not because she flippantly changed her mind; I understand that now, but because she never cared enough to apologise, explain, or do the dignity to say it to my face. whatever her motives, I find that unacceptable. but lol Ive said that in like every blog post this week so I guess the message comes across :P
watched this cool tv soap called "skins", suprisingly good actually, with a sub plot which resembles an insanely exaggerated version of wut I was going through. Made me feel relieved that I came out of it all relatively unscathed; could have been worse :P and hey you know I learned a bit from it, and experience is always good. Guess that maturity is at last catching up with me :P happy that that is happening now at least, better late than never... anyways gonna go pack up my "party" clothes atm, watch some movie, and go to bed sleep since imma have my last exams tomorrow, which is important.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
zzz...
Stayed up more or less all night today, reading the stuff I needed for Russian, and finishing my econ IA.
Slept through my russian self taught paper one today by mistake, fucked up... :s Cecilia didnt look too pissed but she said we would talk tomorrow, going to see what happens then.
Sat hiding under the blue sofa from vector with the moonlight sonata in my ears. the guy was fucking 0.5m away from me and I just didnt care. lol :P
Just watched the video for The killers - Mr. Brightside, and it almost made me laugh it rang so many bells in my head...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIgsDPsU-M0
Going to get some sleep now I guess, finish work for today, read up on a bit of development economics for tomorrow...
Slept through my russian self taught paper one today by mistake, fucked up... :s Cecilia didnt look too pissed but she said we would talk tomorrow, going to see what happens then.
Sat hiding under the blue sofa from vector with the moonlight sonata in my ears. the guy was fucking 0.5m away from me and I just didnt care. lol :P
Just watched the video for The killers - Mr. Brightside, and it almost made me laugh it rang so many bells in my head...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIgsDPsU-M0
Going to get some sleep now I guess, finish work for today, read up on a bit of development economics for tomorrow...
Monday, February 23, 2009
stupidity
Went to tanken with Greg. Was in a reasonably good mood, got some of my randomness back :)
When we came back he started pestering me to get him Coldplay - The scientist. Apparently a deeply emotional song for him... Lol he told me why, and it somehow made me so sad. Went upstairs, did some work, listened to coldplay. I know it is rather stupid, I mean here is a girl that was never honest with me, never told me a word of truth, and when I spilt out all my feelings for her she just sent me an sms saying she changed her mind and expected me to be all puppy happy for friendly socialising again. It seriously fucked me up. But I still care. Its annoying, I dont want it to be like that, but I cant help it. Im trying really hard to forget her, to not write to her every time I go onto facebook, to not just pretend that I forgive her. Its hard for me. Its hard to be a good friend to greg and not to feel insane spikes of jealousy and sadness every time he mentions her, which he does all the time of course, I can see how much feelings he has for her. I wish I could just put everything behind. But what she did was not just hurtful, it was disrespectful to me on a fundamental level.
I cannot demand feelings from her, that would be wrong of course, and I can accept her rejecting me (hey, thats what Im experienced with - rejection), but elementary respect for another human being, some elementary sense of dignity, that is something that I require in a person I would consider close to me, if even only as a friend. I still cant believe that everything she ever told me was bullshit, but thats the only way i can interpret her behaviour, and it saddens me. I really hope Greg does better, but then he will no doubt. Im just an asshole who doesnt know how to behave.
I guess Im just doomed to bear the brunt of this whole thing until the end of school, or until I get drunk and score enough times for cynicism about relationships and girls to kick in.
Hey, at least Im listening to coldplay on a regular basis again :)
When we came back he started pestering me to get him Coldplay - The scientist. Apparently a deeply emotional song for him... Lol he told me why, and it somehow made me so sad. Went upstairs, did some work, listened to coldplay. I know it is rather stupid, I mean here is a girl that was never honest with me, never told me a word of truth, and when I spilt out all my feelings for her she just sent me an sms saying she changed her mind and expected me to be all puppy happy for friendly socialising again. It seriously fucked me up. But I still care. Its annoying, I dont want it to be like that, but I cant help it. Im trying really hard to forget her, to not write to her every time I go onto facebook, to not just pretend that I forgive her. Its hard for me. Its hard to be a good friend to greg and not to feel insane spikes of jealousy and sadness every time he mentions her, which he does all the time of course, I can see how much feelings he has for her. I wish I could just put everything behind. But what she did was not just hurtful, it was disrespectful to me on a fundamental level.
I cannot demand feelings from her, that would be wrong of course, and I can accept her rejecting me (hey, thats what Im experienced with - rejection), but elementary respect for another human being, some elementary sense of dignity, that is something that I require in a person I would consider close to me, if even only as a friend. I still cant believe that everything she ever told me was bullshit, but thats the only way i can interpret her behaviour, and it saddens me. I really hope Greg does better, but then he will no doubt. Im just an asshole who doesnt know how to behave.
I guess Im just doomed to bear the brunt of this whole thing until the end of school, or until I get drunk and score enough times for cynicism about relationships and girls to kick in.
Hey, at least Im listening to coldplay on a regular basis again :)
I promised not to...
And then I did. lol. write a wall of text. but hey at least I dont have anything else to say to her. I had hoped that she would care enough to at least explain. Guess it was too much to hope for. lets hope I dont get another wall of meaningless text that would confuse me again. Tired of those bullshit facebook posts. Seriously if a person has something important to say they can at least bother to say it to my face. I guess that the fact that she never did that shows just how fake this whole thing has been. At least now I can forget about the whole thing.
On a more cheerful note, I found this awesome song Heart of Fire - Innerpartysystem. Great song, weird that it only has 40000 views on youtube. Preparing for my Russian exams right now, going to be weird to write in my mother tongue again after 3 years of no academia in Russian :)
Slumdog Millionaire won 8 oscars! 8 fucking oscars! thats awesome :) I personally loved the film thought it was one of the best I recall seeing in the last 2-3 years. Nicolas was not as positive about it as me, but I guess that the romantic elements of the film appeal more to me since im a closeted sentimental (meh wish i wasnt tbh causes me a lot of trouble).
Got my brother convinced to go somewhere else for the rejseweekend, meaning I can go clubbing without feeling responsible for my bro. He can be heaps of fun, but I seriously would not like to be responsible for his alcohol consumption. Plus, Gregs living facilities are apparently not very large, so wouldnt like to inconveniance his Mom too much.
My grandmothers birthday today, gonna have to call her later...
On a more cheerful note, I found this awesome song Heart of Fire - Innerpartysystem. Great song, weird that it only has 40000 views on youtube. Preparing for my Russian exams right now, going to be weird to write in my mother tongue again after 3 years of no academia in Russian :)
Slumdog Millionaire won 8 oscars! 8 fucking oscars! thats awesome :) I personally loved the film thought it was one of the best I recall seeing in the last 2-3 years. Nicolas was not as positive about it as me, but I guess that the romantic elements of the film appeal more to me since im a closeted sentimental (meh wish i wasnt tbh causes me a lot of trouble).
Got my brother convinced to go somewhere else for the rejseweekend, meaning I can go clubbing without feeling responsible for my bro. He can be heaps of fun, but I seriously would not like to be responsible for his alcohol consumption. Plus, Gregs living facilities are apparently not very large, so wouldnt like to inconveniance his Mom too much.
My grandmothers birthday today, gonna have to call her later...
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Stoner sunday
spent most of today recovering from yesterday... lol :P
Yesterday I started drinking before dinner time, right up until bedtime. Dinner was rather dull so I guess that it was good initiative on my part :)
for the party I spent some time in my room, alone at first and then with greg, and we joyfully consumed the vodka bottle. I was rather suprised in the end I drank 3/4 of the bottle and wasnt really beyond tipsy; guess that Im developing alcohol immunity :D
The Humphrey Bogart costume was quite a success, except that because of the Stetson hat many ppl thought I was indiana jones... lol :P But well considering how much that suit cost (o.O) it better have looked good. When I was sufficiently under the influence of alcohol and boredome, I decided to go dance. Went fine, because for once I honestly didnt give a shit about anything but the music. Ironically apparently that was the formula for success :P ended up dancing with a girl for like 1 1/2 hours, I thought she was quite attractive, but then who knows, alcohol alters our perception of the world. greg said she was a 5/10. to be honest, I dont care :P anyway the funny part was that she got tired like 10 minutes before the end of the party, and so we went outside. You would have thought perfect scoring moment, right? she seemed quite interested, but then I realised I had forgotten my hat on the dancefloor... Expensive stetson hat I borrowed from home, damn :P so I went in there found the girl who had stolen it from me (lol), she was a 3g girl I knew by sight she promised to give it back. And when I come back outside this guy from 2ib Magnus is talking to her, and asks if I would mind if he took her for a dance. Im a bit at loss since he had been more or less trying to get with her the whole time I was dancing with her... I kind of assumed he was her "boyfriend" (or soon to be). So I just left it at that. REAAAALLLLY awkward moment there :P then when she comes back out she starts talking to me, and somehow we talk, and I realise I dont remember her name (or I just didnt here it on the dancefloor). And she asked, and I went like SHIIIT :P so yeah basically she was mildly pissed at me but we were both so drunk I dont think it mattered... then she talked with this Magnus guy for 20 minutes, so yeah that pretty much fucked up :P not that I minded the dancing part was fun. But yeah it was kind of funny in a fucked up way....
Today I procrastinated in my room, read a book, listened to How to Dismantle an Atomic Bomb, the 2004 U2 album (awesome!!!), and was pretty bored... :/ didnt get any signals of life from Greg so just assumed he was with her. Lol she sent me a random message yesterday, probably expecting me to pounce upon her offering of some form of social contact. Nope, not going there. She didnt even have the dignity to make her statement to me in person, or explain it in any way, and then she wants to pretend that nothing happened. Fuck that.
Watched the Frost/Nixon docudrama movie. That was amazing, loved the acting, the screenplay, the whole shebang. Read up on Sir David Frost afterwards and watched some excerpts from the real interviews, and Im amazed at the revival that was made, it was really captivating. A must see in my opinion.
Right now doing that fucking econ ia, going to finish it tonight. Hoping to catch a glimpse of the Oscar Awards while Im working; depends a lot on if Kofoed busts me or not, and if he comes up here checking, and how tired im feeling (got some sleep but goddamn I have an exhausted looking face)
looking forward to the next weekend, if all goes well with me and Greg (having some small tensions for obvious reasons) then we go CLUBBING! :P should be fun havent been around much in helsingør. Meh my brother is coming dont know how I feel about that of course he will want to death to come with us but I seriously dont feel up to the challenge of being responsible for him while im drunk, would ruin all the fun since he is 100% getting wasted out of his mind and then I have to drag him home... Makes me think about new years. Nope, no way am I letting him come.
Listening to the U2 album - Vertigo, Miracle drug, sometimes you cant make it on your own,
an awesome russian song - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxhKLMatTDo&feature=channel_page
Yesterday I started drinking before dinner time, right up until bedtime. Dinner was rather dull so I guess that it was good initiative on my part :)
for the party I spent some time in my room, alone at first and then with greg, and we joyfully consumed the vodka bottle. I was rather suprised in the end I drank 3/4 of the bottle and wasnt really beyond tipsy; guess that Im developing alcohol immunity :D
The Humphrey Bogart costume was quite a success, except that because of the Stetson hat many ppl thought I was indiana jones... lol :P But well considering how much that suit cost (o.O) it better have looked good. When I was sufficiently under the influence of alcohol and boredome, I decided to go dance. Went fine, because for once I honestly didnt give a shit about anything but the music. Ironically apparently that was the formula for success :P ended up dancing with a girl for like 1 1/2 hours, I thought she was quite attractive, but then who knows, alcohol alters our perception of the world. greg said she was a 5/10. to be honest, I dont care :P anyway the funny part was that she got tired like 10 minutes before the end of the party, and so we went outside. You would have thought perfect scoring moment, right? she seemed quite interested, but then I realised I had forgotten my hat on the dancefloor... Expensive stetson hat I borrowed from home, damn :P so I went in there found the girl who had stolen it from me (lol), she was a 3g girl I knew by sight she promised to give it back. And when I come back outside this guy from 2ib Magnus is talking to her, and asks if I would mind if he took her for a dance. Im a bit at loss since he had been more or less trying to get with her the whole time I was dancing with her... I kind of assumed he was her "boyfriend" (or soon to be). So I just left it at that. REAAAALLLLY awkward moment there :P then when she comes back out she starts talking to me, and somehow we talk, and I realise I dont remember her name (or I just didnt here it on the dancefloor). And she asked, and I went like SHIIIT :P so yeah basically she was mildly pissed at me but we were both so drunk I dont think it mattered... then she talked with this Magnus guy for 20 minutes, so yeah that pretty much fucked up :P not that I minded the dancing part was fun. But yeah it was kind of funny in a fucked up way....
Today I procrastinated in my room, read a book, listened to How to Dismantle an Atomic Bomb, the 2004 U2 album (awesome!!!), and was pretty bored... :/ didnt get any signals of life from Greg so just assumed he was with her. Lol she sent me a random message yesterday, probably expecting me to pounce upon her offering of some form of social contact. Nope, not going there. She didnt even have the dignity to make her statement to me in person, or explain it in any way, and then she wants to pretend that nothing happened. Fuck that.
Watched the Frost/Nixon docudrama movie. That was amazing, loved the acting, the screenplay, the whole shebang. Read up on Sir David Frost afterwards and watched some excerpts from the real interviews, and Im amazed at the revival that was made, it was really captivating. A must see in my opinion.
Right now doing that fucking econ ia, going to finish it tonight. Hoping to catch a glimpse of the Oscar Awards while Im working; depends a lot on if Kofoed busts me or not, and if he comes up here checking, and how tired im feeling (got some sleep but goddamn I have an exhausted looking face)
looking forward to the next weekend, if all goes well with me and Greg (having some small tensions for obvious reasons) then we go CLUBBING! :P should be fun havent been around much in helsingør. Meh my brother is coming dont know how I feel about that of course he will want to death to come with us but I seriously dont feel up to the challenge of being responsible for him while im drunk, would ruin all the fun since he is 100% getting wasted out of his mind and then I have to drag him home... Makes me think about new years. Nope, no way am I letting him come.
Listening to the U2 album - Vertigo, Miracle drug, sometimes you cant make it on your own,
an awesome russian song - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxhKLMatTDo&feature=channel_page
Saturday, February 21, 2009
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